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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 30.06.2025 00:09

How does one succeed in life?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What I need from you?

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Quia et magnam illo.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Does not procrastinate.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Ask yourself:

Making more friends is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

That's it for today.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.